I myself have been a hothead until i started to mellow a couple years ago
I myself am guilty of not making myself clear and just get it out .
It has caused me some problems in life but i was taught that being straight forward is the best way...b honest with yourself ss well with everyone around u.
D.B.,as far as my old time growing ,i have been at it starting outside over in Mohawk W.Va. in 1971.
That is where the name of one of my hacks name originated MOHAWK came from..
Also,u are righy about one thing for sure..IHAVE HAD MY TRIALS AND ERRORS.."LOTS OF ERRORS"..LOL
Take care andb cool mi